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Playtime . . . for Daniel, helped
by volunteer Tanya Courtney |
Unrelieved attention to a mentally or physically handicapped child particularly when there are other lively, able-bodied children in the family can put a tremendous strain on family life.
Breakdowns
Several parents have confided that the service has saved a marriage and prevented nervous breakdowns. The ward caters for handicapped children aged from a few months through to 16 years. Sister Childs believes parents should be encouraged to allow phased care as early as possible after a handicap is detected, to climatise both themselves and the child to occasional care outside the home.
Most of the youngsters go in for a spell during the school holidays and at weekends. But for some parents, the occasional day free to devote more attention to able-bodied children in the family, or even to go shopping or visit the hairdresser or dentist, is welcomed.
The staff offer basic care to the youngsters including toilet training, feeding and physiotherapy. Trips with staff into the town centre are a pleasure and thanks to the generosity of local wellwishers, the youngsters also have a wide range of toys which are designed specifically to cater for their needs. The star attraction is an indoor hydrotherapy pool which has been provided by supporters. A total of £26,000 was raised which covered the initial cost of the pool and helps to meet running costs.
Two children are now able to keep themselves afloat in the pool without aid, and others also enjoy the freedom of limb movement in water which their handicaps normally deny them.
Sister Childs said she was delighted by the attitude of Rushden people towards the handicapped children. “People accept the fact that the children are handicapped, and they are welcomed into the shops. Many organisations have virtually adopted us and now provide regular treats such as a firework party.”
There is also no lack of volunteers to help with ward care and many teenagers who have spent some of their school time on community work, return regularly afterwards.
Both Sister Childs and her deputy, Joanna Davis, carried out volunteer work there before taking up full time careers.
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