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Megan Graham, 2015/2016
Harry Graham 2015
Aged 90 in 2015, Toc H, and British Legion
Harry on his 90th Birthday - the card from children of Whitefriars Infant School 2015
Harry was looking forward to this milestone in his life and had the idea he would like to have a concert on the day to celebrate.

As he and Megan enjoy organ music, Nicholas Martin the famous organist was approached and fortunately he was available on 23rd November 2015 to give an afternoon performance at St. Peter’s Church, Rushden.

Megan and Harry on his 90th birthday 2015
Tickets costing £5 were sold and Harry hoped after paying expenses, to donate the remainder to St. Peter’s Church. The concert was so well attended, the church was full, and he was able to give the church £450.

It was a great afternoon, the atmosphere was good, very happy, and feet were tapping to the music. Tea, coffee and a cake were provided. Family, friends and organ music enthusiasts were there. Everyone was welcome.

Harry received many cards and messages, and especially treasured the large card made by the children of Whitefriars Infant School. They knew him from gathering at the Rushden War Memorial to be told about Remembrance Day and poppies every year in November.

Brixworth Countryside Access For All
Toc H Project Rushden Branch

2015 - Twenty years on since the Rushden Branches, led by the Men’s Branch, supported by Northamptonshire District Toc H, decided to create an Environmental Pond, with graded access for all, to celebrate Toc H’s 80th birthday.

This actually became the first phase to create a pond and construction of paths with suitable gradients leading to the pond which had a hard path all round to enable viewing from all angles and a boardwalk to take people over deeper water, providing a pond dipping platform.

After discussions with Northamptonshire County Council, the possibility of Toc H doing a Millennium Project at the undeveloped Brixworth Country Park was suggested. The Northants District Toc H members supported the project and five members met to plan a way forward.

Alan Teullon, NCC Countryside Chief Officer, and Andy Johnson, NCC Officer, were tremendous supporters of the project and worked tirelessly to make it a success.

Megan & Harry Graham (Chairman of NCC) holding a portrait of Prince Charles and wearing their chains of office.
Disabled people were consulted at the planning stage, to ensure that their needs for countryside recreation and enjoyment were met.

As with all Toc H projects the aim was to strengthen understanding and break down barriers; the different groups of people who met and worked closely together on the Brixworth Countryside For All Project achieved this.

When Lottery money became available it was considered Brixworth would be ideal for a Millennium Project.

This £1.5m project was small but none the less important to Northamptonshire. It demonstrated our rural connections and our love of the countryside. Toc H’s contribution was to realise £200,000.

We worked in partnership with Northamptonshire County Council, Anglian Water and British Trust for Conservation Volunteers.

Fieldfare Trust who are leading advisors on the provision of countryside recreation for people with disabilities were consulted.

In addition to the Environmental friendly pond and trail, improvements to the existing visitor centre, a new restaurant, cycle hire facility, classrooms, residential accommodation, a wildflower meadow, sensory garden and maze in the country park and construction of the Pitsford Water Trail, a 9 km hard surfaced path suitable for wheelchairs and pushchairs.

The partners applied to the Millennium Commission in April 1995 for funding and were delighted to be accepted as a suitable project to mark the start of the 21st Century.

In 1995 Megan and I travelled to Alison House and gave a case study to the Toc H Central Executive Committee, who then agreed to underwrite the Toc H contribution to the project the sum of £200,000 in cash and “in kind” up to the year 2000. Similar amounts from the other parties.

The task seemed daunting at first but the partnership with the local authority, private and voluntary sectors, showed the success which can be achieved when working together.

We will always be grateful to Toc H’s own committee and support group. Through the Toc H Events Magazine volunteers came from France, Belgium, Spain, Italy, Hong Kong and the UK.  Many people throughout the country helped with finance and in other ways.

Their effort at the country park was greatly appreciated and it was an opportunity for them to learn the Toc H way of life whilst working and living together, for days at a time.

The National Lottery Millennium Award was £736,000.

In January 1998 we received the good news we had been awarded £220,000 from SITA the landfill tax which gives grants for environmental work. That meant coupled with Toc H volunteers working time and cash already raised, the underwritten £200,000 was now covered. A truly wonderful day for all.

On a hot sunny day in June 1998 the new buildings at Brixworth Country Park “Countryside for All” Centre and Cycle Hire scheme were officially opened by Mrs Joan Neal of the Northamptonshire Council for the Disabled. Many Toc H members attended. Others present included Northamptonshire County Councillors, Representatives of Anglian Water and British Trust for Conservation Volunteers and many friends.

A high spot of the proceedings was the presentation of a cheque for £220,000 to Megan Graham, for Toc H. This was a grant from the Sita Environmental Trust Ltd.

After the presentation people inspected the new Cafe and the accommodation block (where many hundreds of exhausted Toc H volunteers had lived and slept over the past three years, previously the village hall at Pitsford had been used).

The tree appeal continued until 2000 and many hundreds were planted in all weathers. It was an invitation to so many Groups, MP’s, W.I., MIND and many personal tributes by individuals.

The project began in 1993 and was completed in 2000.

H.R.H. Prince Charles visited Brixworth Country Park early in September 2000. His visit was to celebrate the completion of the Millennium Project of which Toc H had been a partner.

It was a lovely sunny day. Many Toc H members attended and were so pleased when Prince Charles spent time talking to them. He told Megan to “take care of Toc H”.

N.C.C. staff and Councillors attended the event and Harry who was Chairman that year had the honour of inviting the Prince to unveil a plaque commemorating his visit.

“A never to be forgotten day”.

My thanks to Megan, Jim, Sally, Rushden Toc H Branches and Toc H Central Executive Committee. It was a totally worthwhile project.

History by Harry & Megan Graham - 15th May 2015


Megan and Harry Graham joined the Rushden Branch of the British Legion in September 2000. Meetings were held on the second Monday in the month at the Athletic Club, Newton Road Rushden. Megan had been a Poppy Seller with Toc H. - to date nearly 50 years.

Remembrance Day march
Harry carrying a wreath of poppies with the British Legion
Harry would help her with this, particularly door to door in Park Avenue Rushden.  When he became a member he sold poppies at many locations in Rushden. Upon his retirement from Northamptonshire County Council both he and Megan attended British Legion meetings. In August 2001 Ron Lutter who was RBL Secretary invited Harry to become Treasurer for the branch. He did this until 2004 when he became Vice President. Cliff Jeffries was the President at that time.Harry also held the positions of Secretary and Chairman.

Megan assisted him with the paperwork connected to the different roles.

Remembrance Day Service and Parade are very important to Harry and he still attends this.

He has arranged services to commemorate special memorial events at the War Memorial and has been responsible for the Garden of Remembrance there.



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